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Dear Jellybean,
My Dad died around 7 months ago, and it's not that I don't miss him, because I miss (and love) my Dad a whole lot! However, after he died my Mom told me some things about him before they got divorced (which was maybe 7 years ago).
I know that I can trust my Mom, so I know she's not lying. But anyway, they were really bad things, which I really don't feel comfortable saying to others. (It's one of those things you'd rather keep to yourself, I haven't even told any of my friends or family).
I don't know if I can forgive him. If I knew he was/is truly sorry, I would forgive him, but I don't know and now I don't think I'll ever know, now! So, I don't know if I should forgive him or not! I kind of feel like a jerk to my Dad if I don't. But then again, why should I, if he didn't have the guts to say sorry to my Mom and I?
Thank you for taking the time to read my question.
-Andie
