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Dear Jellybean,
recenty iv been starting to think im in way over my head, Iv started a new year at school and im finding everything hard, and can barely keep up with the amount of homework im getting. I feel like crying all the time, and now iv just found out tht my best mate and her boyfriend are having serious problems and they'l probably break up soon. this mens that im going to be constantly listening to how upset she is and comfating her, i dont mind doing this, i think im a pretty good friend, but i cant help but notice that it always seems to be me that makes the effort, and iv been down for at least 3 months and she hasnt even asked if im alright, as soon as shes with her boyfriend she forgets about me. i feel like such a second choice. A couple of my friends have fallen out with each other, and im expecteted to choose sides, but i dont want to, personally i think that theyr both wrong. All this has made me really stressed, but i dont know if im just over-reacting. I dont want to look like im making a huge fuss out of nothing, if i went to ask for help and was told that everyone felt this way i would be so embarrased. What can i do?
-Katie
