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Dear LACM,
You have had an entire drama going on with this guy... and it's all been in your head! That is the very definition of an obsession. All those feelings you guess he has for you, liking you, then not liking you, etc... it's all something you made up. He has no idea, and may not have had any of those feelings in reality!
So what should you do? You really only have one choice, if you're tired of obsessing with nothing happening. That is, to ask him out. If you're nervous, invite him to a coed group outing, like a party at your place, a bunch of girls and guys going to a weekend movie, or whatever. Or seek him out at the school dance, and ask him to slow dance with you.
But do something. Because until you do, all of this remains in your own head, and not in reality. And that's no fun for anyone!
