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Dear Writer,
You can't. If he was your boyfriend, it would be different. Then you could say, "I know I'm probably being paranoid, but sometimes I feel like you're flirting with my boyfriend, and it makes me feel uncomfortable." But this guy isn't your honey - at least not yet - he's just a friend, and he's your BFF's friend too.
So hold your tongue, and hope for the best. If your guy friend is weirded out, maybe HE will say something to her, or she'll eventually pick up on his signals and back off. In any case, her flirting isn't going to affect your crush's feelings about you.
If he likes you (as more than a friend), he's going to like you whether or not anyone flirts with him, because all he will be thinking about is you. Think about it - that's exactly what it's like when you're into someone - everyone else becomes sort of invisible. So don't worry, keep flirting with him, and good luck with the more-than-friends thing!
