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Dear Cheerleader at heart,
I think the truth of what you want lies not in your letter, with all its reasons for why you "look like a cheerleader", but in the way you signed off. You call yourself a "cheerleader at heart" - and I'm a big advocate of people following their hearts!
You can't know what will happen if you join the cheer squad. Yes, it's possible that the other cheerleaders will continue to be rude, and you'll be an "outsider" on the team. But it's also possible that the other cheerleaders will be impressed by your spirit, get to know you as a person, and learn that you're not just about your "semi-popular status" but a nice person who is open to being friends with people outside of her usual group.
What I'm saying is, don't let your worries prevent you from trying something that appeals to you. It could work out - and become a wonderful new hobby, and a great place to meet new friends and expand your horizons. At worst, you'll find out it's not the place for you, and chalk it up to experience. At least you'll know that you tried, and didn't give up without giving it your best. Talk to the cheer coach and let her know you might be interested in trying out. Ask what the requirements are, and if she's willing to give you a shot at becoming a squad member. Good luck!
