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Dear Amz,
Your friends lied because they knew you would disapprove. That's not the most mature thing they could have done, but it's pretty typical. I think getting worked about about the lie is counter-productive, because the fact is, everyone knows the truth now, and you can't turn back time. The real issue to deal with now is, the fact that your friends are doing stuff that you don't approve of, or want to join in on, and whether you can all still stay friends because of this.
You have to decide for yourself if you want to stay friends with these people. Giving them the cold shoulder doesn't seem like a good solution to me. It's kind of arrogant and condescending. After all, even if your friends are doing stuff that you wouldn't, it's not your place to sit in judgment over them. You don't have to join them - and I think you're awfully smart not to, by the way - but they do have to "make their own mistakes", as you say. If they have to answer for these later, it won't be to you.
Should you be there if something goes wrong? That's what we do for friends. However, when people throw themselves in harm's way continually, we do have to ask ourselves if we want to stick around to clean up the mess. What I'm saying is, consider whether you might need to find new friends, who share your values and beliefs, and can have fun with you the way you want, instead of running off and hiding to have fun in a way you can't get on board with.
