The person you've fallen for seems to be the real deal. You've got good instincts when it comes to crushes. This one is worth your attention. As always when dealing with boys, proceed with caution, but proceed. Let your brain and your female instincts be your guide and you'll do fine. But keep your eyes open... just because he's not a player now, doesn't mean that he won't be named a player, later!
The person you have chosen to crush on is a major player. He's seen more action than the armed forces! Unless you like to get your heart broken, run away! This guy is not the type who wants to settle down with just one girl. Plus if you two ever hook up, he might talk about it to every guy he knows. Don't play his reindeer games - you deserve way better! Forget this player and find yourself a more worthy guy to crush on.