Breaking up is hard to do, and unfortunately no one knows that better than you. If you're still sorting through the "but why's" and "if only's" (not to mention the secrets and lies), just be patient with yourself. Even if you're wondering whether you should get back together, one thing is clear: All you need is time and TLC. Hang in there - your closure will come. Need some help moving on? Read the Myjellybean.com article Getting Over a Bad Breakup.
There's good news and there's bad news. The good news is this: You're halfway there! It probably wasn't pretty, but you've gotten through most of the messy stuff by now. Now for the bad news: Even though you're no longer going through the tissues on a box-a-day basis, you've still got some healing to do. Try to take it easy, take it slow and trust yourself to work through it. Need some extra help? Read the Myjellybean.com article Getting Over a Bad Breakup.
Congratulations! You survived the breakup, but even better, you've picked yourself up and dusted off that post-relationship rubble. Maybe it took a while, but all that TLC that you've given yourself lately has finally paid off! From taking him off your friends list, to considering the possibility that you'll date again, you've captured all the closure you need. Look out world, here you come!