I'm not sure how to tell the difference between intuition/gut feeling and just plain old paranoia or overreacting.
The main point is there are huge issues between me and my boyfriend. I broke up with him for that among other reasons, but we've been talking again to see if we could work it out and to see if he could prove to me that I should be with him...
Throughout the relationship I've been so put off by the fact that he was always so secretive with his phone (screen lock, placing it face down on the table, and taking it everywhere with him...even the bathroom). And he always had an excuse.
There were a couple incidents when I caught his ex at his house because he was borrowing money from her or whatever and he claims nothing went on but obviously ever since that I've had issues trusting him.
There were a couple things that I questioned and couldn't explain even though he came up with an explanation that was too good to argue. But he could just be a good liar. I don't have any evidence that he's cheated on me but I have this overwhelming feeling that he talks to his ex. And even if he was I don't know why he'd hide it.
Maybe I'm just looking for reasons not to trust him, but my stomach turns when I think of the situation. I don't know if I should give him another chance or not.