This seems to be a redundant theme with my relationships.
My boyfriend now has had one serious relationship besides me and the girl is a well-off, spoiled, only child who seems to have always been able to afford the best type of clothes and makeup. I have not, I've always made do with what I could get but my boyfriend is a lot more superficial than that, and I suspect it's her influence.
Latest example that spurred this thread: I said I was looking forward to getting a MAC gift card for christmas to finally get some good quality makeup for myself. He goes and tells me his ex told him MAC is crap because she works at the Bay and knows about this stuff. Like, seriously? Thanks a lot.
My ex before that preferred blondes and loves karaoke, I'm a brunette and can't sing at all.
Before that I was with a guy who preferred latinas who could dance, I'm not latina and have absolutely no rhythm. He would also often hint that I should lose weight.
And before that, I was with a guy who had baggage with his super athletic ex and he would always mention how I should get into shape. He even told me he liked "muscular thighs" lol.. like his butch ex, who he ended up leaving me for.
I'm really sick of being compared to something I'm just not, why can't I seem to find someone who just loves me the way I am? Am I somehow ending up with guys like this or do they all do this? I'm seriously wondering.
If any guys are reading this, STOP IT. You're ALWAYS supposed to make your girlfriend feel like a million bucks and like you wouldn't change a thing about her!