i met this guy 3 years ago. At the time, he had just gotten out of a failed engagement, because his fiance had cheated on him with a friend. He had commitment issues at the time which i didn't understand, at least until I had a failed engagement myself. All that aside, we've been seeing each other, without any labels or anything, on and off for these past 3 years. I've asked him before, a few months ago, if we were just a booty call to each other. He assured me, like he has every time ive ever asked him, that he is both physically, sexually, and emotionally attracted to me, that he does like me and isn't seeing anyone else, its just the label or exclusiveness that freaks him out, because he's so scared to be hurt again. He knows I would never hurt him, and i never have these past 3 years. I'm just getting to the point now where I'd like so much to be official, or exclusive with each other, that i'm getting frustrated with what we've been doing. I'm planning on talking to him about it in person, just a "wtf are we doing?" type thing. My question is, how long would you guys do this before calling it quits? Would you give up if he kept giving you the same answer?