How long do you think you and your bf need to be dating before going on vacations together? Have you gone on a family vacation with your bf?
My bf and I have dated for almost 3 years. Right now, our families are talking about going on vacations in the future. My family is currently trying to figure out a time to go to England in the future. My mom is currently planning that trip and she's just planning on immediate family (no significant others allowed) going on the trip. From what I've learned from her recently, this vacation will probably happen in one or two years since she is waiting on my brother to finish with graduate school before my family goes. Meanwhile, my bf's family is planning a trip to Disney World sometime during this upcoming winter or the next year. His mom is planning their trip and she's mentioned to my bf in advance that I am being included for that trip. Although these two different trips are still in the works and when happen will occur at different times (my bf's mom is planning a time during the winter while my mom is planning on the summer) depending on how the plans end up, I am wondering if 3 years is right now an appropriate time to start including each other in family vacations. I am just curious if 3 years enough time for my bf and I to start thinking about going on family vacations together.
Note: As of right now, since plans are unofficial, I am going to let everyone figure out when these vacations will happen and just wait on my bf or his mom to formally invite me for their family vacation. This way I don't automatically assume I am included on their family vacation.