Back in October I hooked up with this guy that ive known for a long time. And by hook up I mean we made out, he tried fingering me but I sad no because we were on my cousins couch. My cousin is very protective of me because we are so close. And if he saw a guy let alone one of his friends touching me like that he would punch him. He almost punched him with us just holding hands. I really liked this guy. But I just let things fizz away. So at the beginning of the month I decided to show him a text (His phone is mia). it was pretty much saying id hookup with him and not worry about anything else. And I was fine with that. And I knew hed take up my offer. I soon found out that he told his group of friends about what I said. And they started making comments like look your gf is here. So immature. We both just laughed it off.Two weekends ago my other cousin who is a girl and I decided to chill with him and his twin. When we hung nothing was happening at first cause he told my cousin "Im not doing anything with anyone though" HA yaaaa right. 5 mins after giving me a massage he starts feeling me up and going under my shirt and tried unbuttoning my pants. Then I felt his abs and he put my hand down his pants to give him a handjob. i knew nothing else was going to happen. Just friends. Nothing more. And I got over him. And fell for someone who he was once kinda friends with. Me and this new guy commented on each others status on fb and we texted all weekend saying we needed to hang asap and i told him id said a pic of me before i left and he gave a wink face. The thing is... The old guy I use to like just asked my cousin if I liked this new guy. How would he know? Or even want to know or care? I dont understand him at all it frustrates me soooo much.