WEIRDNESS WITH GUY FRIEND

Dear Jellybean,

I think I may have made a huge mistake. My guy friend and I were really great friends at the begining of the year. But then I found out he was moving and I my emotions went crazy. We started to have more fights and now we're ignoring each other. Not in a mean way, we just don't talk. We don't know why it started. Anyway, recently I found out he's not going to move because of some family complications. I want to start being friends again but I don't know where to start or how to appologize. I've learned alot about myself in the fact that I am over-emotional, stubborn, and a bit selfish. How do I try to set things straight again? And what if he asks me why I stopped talking to him when I don't even know?

Dear Writer,

Write him a short note - and I mean, super-short. Skip the long explanations and soul searching. Just say something basic like, "Hey, I really miss being friends with you. Want to hang out this Saturday? Call/text me." And there you go. Sometimes the best solution to an emotional mess, is a non-emotional invitation. Good luck!