ASK OUT HER GUY FRIEND?

Dear Jellybean,

Well, I like one of my "Guy friends".I probablly have more guy friends than girl friends.I am normally considered one of the guys....I guess..Well I crush on my guy friends all the time....Getting over them relizing I was just lonely.Well I like a guy named Mark.I sit behind him in class.We write notes all the time, but he says he flirts with one of his best friends...So I started thinking...I was really the only girl friend he had really....Except for a girl named Alyssa....Well I really like mark.And he said he doesn't ask out girlls.....The girls have to ask HIM out......SO should I go for it and ask him or should I eaze off and let him be?

Dear Writer,

Player alert! You write him notes, and he says he flirts with someone else (and yes, he is talking about someone else, even if you can't figure out who it is). And he says girls have to ask him out... why, because he's too good to ask them out?

No, I'll tell you why. He waits for a girl who puts up with being treated disrespectfully (because he's being pretty rude, not ha you've noticed). Then he says to himself, "Hey, I can probably get away with tons if I date this girl, she'll still like me even if I treat her badly." Just what a player loves.

You can do SO much better than this - we all can! Refuse to get caught in a player's trap. If you're lonely, focus on being more social (joining clubs, taking classes, volunteering for stuff) so you can make new friends. Spend more time with your mom or siblings. Heck, get a puppy. Just don't chase after any guy who shows the slightest bit of interest - and NEVER chase a guy who sits back and expects you to come after him!