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Dear Jellybean,

I have this best friend who I always used to be insanely jealous of but now I've gotten more confident and am only a little bit jealous.

It just bugs me the way my friend is good looking and gets all the attention from guys. Like last night we went out and she got with 5 different guys and I didnt get with any guys. She always makes loads of friends too when we go out and this also makes me jealous. Also she usually ignores me when shes with guys, and I cant do the same because guys usually dont go for me! She has more friends than me, guys like her more than me, everyone pays more attention to her than me, shes more sociable than me and shes more intelligent than me. It just seems like she has it all and I'm stuck with nothing comparable to anything of hers. Please help me to become more sociable and confident and get over my (slight!) jealousy of her. Its just that I dont know how much longer I can take being her friend when we go out and she flirts with ALL the guys. But I like her as a friend.

-Genevieve