BOYFRIEND IGNORES HER CONCERNS

Dear Jellybean,

My boyfriend is always hanging all over some other girl, and I have already confronted him about it and he just ignored me and walked away. What should I do?

Dear Writer,

Your boyfriend hanging all over another girl is a problem. But it's not your main problem. Nope, your big dilemma is that you're dating a guy who doesn't care about hurting your feelings, and walks away from you while you're sharing them. Need I say more? Nobody deserves to be treated so rudely and disrespectfully.

He's your boyfriend, so give him one more chance. Call him up, tell him you really need to talk about your feelings, and let him know - as nicely as can be - what's bothering you.

But if he blows you off again, ditch the dude. Tell him to take his attitude and put it somewhere, er, non-sunshiney. Then move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea, and some of them will actually treat you swimmingly. So to speak.