SEX WITH EX?

Dear Jellybean,

Okay so my ex and I just broke up last week. But now we're friends. Well, best friends I guess. Last night he sent me and IM to see how I'm doing. And we ended up talking. He asked me to hangout with him tonight. But he also asked what he's going to be able to do tonight, like kissing and stuff like we use to do. He eventually ended up telling me that he wants to loose his virginity to me because he doesn't want to loose it to just some girlfriend, he wants to loose it to someone who means more and because him and I are very comfortable with each other. During the entire IM he was talking to me as if we were still dating. Which I don't get because he broke up with me, twice! I'm so confused. It's like he wants to be more than friends but less than boyfriend/girlfriend. What game is he playing? And I don't want to loose him. Can you please help me?! I'm soooo confused. =/
-Confused in Rhode Island

Dear Confused,

What a clown. He doesn't think you're good enough to be his girlfriend, but he thinks you're good enough to sleep with? This guy is NOT your friend. He is definitely playing a game, and it's called, "Try to have sex with no emotional consequences." You deserve a THOUSAND TIMES BETTER than that. Let him know there's no way you're going to grant his wish, and that the subject is permanently closed. This dog can go bark up some other tree!