MAKING 34A LOOK BIGGER

Dear Jellybean,

Im 13 in 8th grade and I have a 34A. I think that's ok, but when I see my best friend it makes me feel bad because she has bigger than me. I know you say that there are ways you can do that and I understand but what about swimming parties? They see you with big boobs and then all of a sudden they shrink. It's embarrasing.
-Confused

Dear Confused,

That's why they invented swimsuits with padding! If you want to wear padded bras for everyday, and continue the illusion at swimming parties, all you need is the right swimsuit. You can find one-piece suits and bikinis with extra support/padding at most swimsuit stores. Or shop online at a store like Victoria's Secret, which has a great Swim boutique (and good return policies, in case anything you order doesn't fit).

Of course, you could also decide to be happy with your body. I think a 34A is totally okay. You're quite young, and there's a good chance your breasts will get bigger as the rest of you does. For now, why not dedide to love yourself the way you are? You may feel jealous of your friend sometimes, but you're your own person, with your own look, and if you hold yourself with confidence, you'll look awesome.