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Dear Jellybean,

I have a crush on my guy friend. We hang out a lot and get along really well. But... my other friends think he’s gay. Now I can’t be sure, but sometimes I think he could be, and other times I think no he’s defiantly not. My friend and I have both straight up asked him if he was gay and he said no and laughed it off. He didn’t seem that bothered that we asked him. We think he’s gay because a) he never talks about liking anyone, and he has a lot of female friends and doesn’t seem to take an interest in any of them, b) how he always looks really well-put together, and c) he kind of talks like a girl... not sounding like a girl per-se, but just the way he says certain things make him sound... feminine. A lot of girls think he’s adorable, and they all think he’s a sweetie. I’m not sure what to do. I would support him 100% if he was gay, but I really like this guy and if he WAS, I would want him to feel comfortable enough to tell me. So I guess what I’m asking is: is he gay, or should I just not worry about this?

Thanks,

Headband